Families in Crisis
In our culture, marriage is at a critical crossroad, and the vast majority of couples separate. Staying together, however, does not necessarily demonstrate success. Recent polls show that less than ten percent of married couples are happy in their relationship.As researchers direct more attention towards psychosocial variables that affect physical health, the way they study relationships is shifting. Previously, researchers examined relationship status (i.e., the presence of relation ships versus a lack of relationships) in relation to physical health. More recently, research investigations are focusing on specific qualities of relationships that might be associated with physical health.Understanding how social support affects health and, in particular, which characteristics of social support affect health, is currently receiving a lot of attention. Being married, for example, does not guarantee happiness nor the superior health benefits and longevity previously associated with simply being married.Our Neglected Youth
Statistics show that unhappy parents beget unhappy children. Children and young adults today are more obese, more addicted, and more confused than any generation before. Most parents spend all of their time pursuing economic success, ignoring their families in the process. In North America alone, there are over two million grandparents raising their grand children due to the incompetence of their own children as parents.Television and teachers have seemingly taken the place of overworked parents. Our educational systems, however, leave a lot to be desired. Overcrowded classrooms and violence among students are issues of great concern, and the situation seems to be growing worse, not better.We are now drugging our active children as a treatment for so-called "emotional disorders." Rather than deal with the emotionally disturbed children that come from our disharmonious broken homes, we use prescription drugs as a quick fix.Sexual abuse is rampant in today's society, whether it is in fact more prevalent or simply more reported, and impacts people of all classes. Some experts estimate that one in four children are sexually assaulted, and others think that number is even higher. The most common perpetrator is someone who knows the child, often a relative. This kind of betrayal by a family member, whom the child trusts, causes lifelong issues with trust and sexual dysfunction.All of these problems stem back to our own inability to do what is best for ourselves and our children. When our core character is unshakable we are contributors to the human race. When we waver or wander or change like the wind, we drain not only ourselves, but also humanity.Listed below are simple steps to create stronger families, friends and work relations:1. Search for stimulation first within yourself, and then within the circle of your family and friends, rather than seeking it from external sources. Tune spent together enjoying each other, supporting each other, and honoring each other will enrich your lives.2. Make time for your family and friends. Spending quality time with your children will ensure that they are well adjusted and content3. Develop strong bonds with your parents, grandparents, and children, so that trust will manifest Stability will come from this simple act This nucleus will enable you to step out of the family system and develop further relationships with those you meet throughout your life.4. Reach out and touch someone. Statistics show that having a net work of family and friends who you contact on a regular basis actually increases your life expectancy.5. Realize that each person has a unique viewpoint based on their individual experiences. Try not to judge opinions that are different from your own.6. Try to be truly "present" when listening to others. Presence is a gift that you can give to others that is truly appreciated. Often a person feels better just by feeling that they were "heard."7 And finally, learn to accept critique and criticism from those closest to you. This often difficult process will bring great rewards when you learn to synthesize those bumpy spots into graceful living.Vitality will occur when we have the confidence to live our life like a masterful craftsman. You will gain energy if you create priorities that you must meet with forthright action. You can create the bridge that will bond you to the people in your home, at your work place, and on the planet once you become whole within yourself.For more information on Dr.Brian ClementClick here http://www.facebook.com/sunwarrior//healthhub/ https://www.sunwarrior.com"